Hello everyone out there!!
You must have read a gazillion of articles on how to be confident. But this, my readers, is going to be a bit different. This is how to be confident in your own skin.
Own skin basically means your outer appearance.
This article is about how you mask your faults and highlight your best features. Everyone likes a confident person. Don’t you?? But still that is one factor most of us lack.
Confidence is something that comes from within. It can be practised. Grown over time. Nutured. And overnight can do miracles! Let’s start it!!
Less is the new more. I had this friend of mine, name her Amy. She is extremely short but even extremely confident. And I often see people asking her that though she is short and barely noticeable in public, still she makes an impact on whomever she meets. She told me that her heels give her the confidence. Confused? Let’s try another example.
I am on the more dusky Indian complexion, and my red lipstick gives me immense of confidence. Another friend of mine told that his handwoven white shirt gave him loads of confidence. So that’s how you carry your confidence. Find your confidence on small things. It may be a ring, clothes, accessories or anything that makes you more sure about yourself.
The second tip would be, read books. Indulge yourself in the process of learning, relearing and unlearning. Broaden your perspectives. Have your own opinion. Be independent. Being independent is again of five types. Please let me know if you want me to write about it. By knowledge, I don’t mean, knowing the dates of Battle of Plassey. I mean, know the basic facts and current affairs.
For example, know by whom and for whom the Taj Mahal was made. And why does it come under World’s Wonders.
Moving on to the next tip, sit, stand or walk straight. Your back bone should be straight, chin up and shoulder behind. This gives an appearance of extremely confident person. Don’t walk around like there is no aim in your life. Or sit like you have lost treasures. Don’t stand with your shoulders drooping. These all are a huge nah nah!! If you are short then please have a straight posture. This makes you look taller. If you are already tall then stand straight so that you appear more taller and confident.
Another thing you will notice in confident people is that they make eye contact. They never lose the sight of the other person. Capture the persons attention by looking into their eyes. No matter how small, big or rounded your eyes are, they are beautiful!! Trust me amigos!! All of us have beautiful eyes!! Eyes are the window to your soul. Why would you even look away when you can mesmerize them?!
Last but not the least, be happy. Nothing is more attractive than a confident and happy person. Let go of the negative vibes. Spread positive engry. Accept your body the way God has given you.
All the girls out there, you are beautiful!! And all the boys, you are going to be one of the most admired men!!
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